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  • 1.  behavior

    Registered Piano Technician
    Posted 07-01-2015 10:43



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    Patrick Baron
    Christiansted, VI

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    Gentleman;  I subscribed to this discussion in the interests of keeping abreast of the current state of skills, tools, techniques, theories, etc... for the sake of maintaining my connection to the community of professionals from which I, in my semi-retirement, am physically far removed.  While my participation has been entirely passive up to this point, the recent spate of venomous posts prompts me to weigh in.  I'd like to applaud members who, like Fred Strum, remain above the fray and confine their posts to relevant technical concerns, ignoring the nasty baiting swirl of vindictive.  I will likely unsubscribe to this thread in spite of the modest percentage of useful and interesting discussion for the sake of my peace of mind. 



  • 2.  RE: behavior

    Registered Piano Technician
    Posted 07-01-2015 10:55

    I find it very easy to see who is posting, and skip over them. Just like on Facebook.

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    Larry Messerly, RPT
    Bringing Harmony to Homes
    www.lacrossepianotuning.com
    ljmesserly@gmail.com
    608-518-2441
    928-899-7292
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  • 3.  RE: behavior

    Posted 07-01-2015 14:01

    Good bye Mr. Baron. You don't need to state that you are about to leave. Just go and be done with it. It is the same issue with people threatening to delete posts from specific people. You think they really care? Just do it. There is no reason to announce it to the world, unless your intent is to influence others.

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    Bradley Snook
    Houston
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  • 4.  RE: behavior

    Registered Piano Technician
    Posted 07-01-2015 14:18

    Patrick

    Please don't let the behavior of a few individuals cloud your vision of the whole group. As Larry suggested, just ignore and delete topics between people who make it bad for all of us. Despite a few bad apples, we are really a fun bunch, with a lot of good information to share.

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    Willem "Wim" Blees, RPT
    Mililani, HI 96789
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  • 5.  RE: behavior

    Posted 07-01-2015 14:56

    Indeed, here is an example of how fun someone like Wim Blees actually is [from a post that he wrote to Keith McGavern]:

    Wim Blees said: "But be careful with how "loudly" you defend [name omitted]. By your actions you are getting very close to having people on this list who will request that you are asked to leave. ..."

    Keith McGavern: Another be careful comment. Very weird. That makes two.

    Sadly, Keith died shortly after that post. Was there a connection? I don't know--I wasn't there--but threats and intimidations like these should never be acceptable in a professional organisation. Keith was defending the greater good, and Wim Blees openly tried to intimidate him in front of the entire organisation. That strong-armed attempt at bullying is what is vile and disgusting. This documented pattern of inappropriate behaviour is what I find morally objectionable. Even a rudimentary scanning of the archives reveals just how "fun" people are with each other. 

    Further uncensored comments:

    @ Adam Schulte-Bukowinski, I take threats seriously. That is one reason NOT to threaten people. Keith stood up against threats of intimidation until his death. Those are the facts. He was bullied and threatened in an attempt to intimidate him for standing up for what was right. That kind of PTGer behaviour has continued to this day. The threats of retaliation have continued. Which is why I brought it up. As far as I know, PTGers fully intend to go as far as they can with their threats, if they think they can get away with it. This is not a game. 

    @ Stephen Grattan, where have I ever called anyone any names? I've never engaged in that kind of behaviour. Please post an example that demonstrates your point. The group of individuals that have been coming after me for the past few years have been PTGers (i.e., CTEs, RPTs, and Associates). Outside of members of this organisation, no one seems to be harbouring ill will and flinging it at me. That doesn't mean that it comes from every PTGer; it does means that it has thus far come from PTGers. It appears to be an organisational-wide acceptance of behaviour, hence the grouping.

     

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    Bradley Snook
    Houston
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  • 6.  RE: behavior

    Registered Piano Technician
    Posted 07-01-2015 15:17

    Sadly, Keith died shortly after that post. Was there a connection? I don't know--I wasn't there

    What a vile insinuation. For all your ardent claims of being maligned and persecuted, I'm fairly confident that no one here has insinuated that your behavior may or may not have lead to someone's death.

    Disgusting.


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    Adam Schulte-Bukowinski, RPT
    http://www.asbpianoservice.com
    Omaha, NE
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  • 7.  RE: behavior

    Posted 07-01-2015 15:41

    OK, enough is enough.  Mr. Snook, there are thousands of PTG members who have done nothing to you, said nothing to you, hurt you in no way, said nothing about you, disparaged your theories - and yet you lump all PTG members in the same group.  I, among many are offended by that. You owe thousands of PTG members an apology.  To PTG members involved, how is all of this nonsense - by any of you, in any way productive?  How hard is it  to skip over posts that do not affect you?  How is it, in any way furthering what the PTG stands for and what the free exchange of ideas can stimulate in the way of new understanding for any of us, PTG or not?  It is far past time to stop these ridiculous threads and name calling.  Were there threats made to harm someone? - not in any way, shape or even stretch of the imagination. Dragging out deceased members emails crosses a line that shouldn't be crossed.  There is nothing to gain except furthering this wasteful nonsense. I cannot understand why anyone would stay in this group if they do not gain from it.  No one gains from this nonsense.  I would love to check my emails and not have all this childish behavior listed for all to see.  Tomorrow is a new day.  Let us all try harder to accept each others ideas and stop this name calling.

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    Stephen Grattan- Proud Associate Member PTG
    Port Huron MI
    810-984-2757
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  • 8.  RE: behavior

    Registered Piano Technician
    Posted 07-01-2015 16:11

    Are we all having fun yet?

    Kent Burnside, are you happy with the results of your initial post about trolls?

    It seems to me that our little world was wandering along all right without your sage advice.

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    Susan Kline
    Philomath, Oregon

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  • 9.  RE: behavior

    Posted 07-01-2015 19:22

    it was a nice place until Snookums got on board.

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    Regards,

    Jon Page



  • 10.  RE: behavior

    Registered Piano Technician
    Posted 07-01-2015 22:22

    All

    Once again I feel a need to remind everyone of the Code of Conduct to which we all agreed.  If you need a refresher go to the bottom of the Home page and click on Code of Conduct.  Lately several members have skated very close to the out of bounds line and a few have dangled their toes over the line.  Before we all regret things that have been said please remember that the lists exist for the exchange of ideas and information.  It is easy to become passionate about your particular position or methodology but we need to respect the persons behind the posts.  I hope many of you will come to Denver and exchange ideas in person and even dare to sit down to a meal with someone with whom you may have disagreed and see if you can embrace the person and respect the ideas exchanged.

    President for a couple more weeks.

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    Norman Cantrell
    Piano Clinic
    Lawton OK
    580-355-5003
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  • 11.  RE: behavior

    Registered Piano Technician
    Posted 07-01-2015 22:48

    Norman,

    Thank you for that reminder.

    A friend of mine was tragically killed two days ago, and I am reminded that words said---and unsaid---can do forever harm.

    Time to stop.

    See you face to face in Denver.

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    John Parham, RPT
    Hickory, NC
    828-244-2487
    johnparham@piano88.com
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  • 12.  RE: behavior

    Registered Piano Technician
    Posted 07-02-2015 00:01

    Thank you, Norm, for the reminder.

    And thank you, too, for all your service to the PTG. It is greatly appreciated.

    Denver?????   Where's that?  (big grin)

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    Willem "Wim" Blees, RPT
    Mililani, HI 96789
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  • 13.  RE: behavior

    Posted 07-03-2015 12:40

    Without a moderator this is what we can expect. Exercise delete or do not engage in reply. For now I for one have had enough of non technical crap. I'll check back in a few weeks and see if the dust has cleared. I got a business to run.

    Chris Solliday






  • 14.  RE: behavior

    Registered Piano Technician
    Posted 07-02-2015 01:24

    Personally, Norman, I'd like for you to be president for longer than two more weeks.

    I actually was planning to come to Denver, because for once it was the week after my little festival on the Oregon Coast, instead of the same week. However, I just finished having a holistic dentist totally rebuild the back 2/3 of my mouth, which now has no metal in it. Everything needed crowns, very pretty crowns of lithium silicate. So I'll be paying down a stratospheric VISA balance instead of taking trips, at least for a couple of years. (It's a good thing I enjoy tuning pianos, lots of pianos ...)

    I hope a fine time is had by all in the Mile-Hi city.

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    Susan Kline
    Philomath, Oregon

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  • 15.  RE: behavior

    Registered Piano Technician
    Posted 07-02-2015 00:07

    From the Code of Conduct: 'Don't challenge or attack others. The discussions and comments are meant to stimulate conversation not to create contention. Let others have their say, just as you may.'

    Ashley Turner, RPT

    Ethics Committee



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    Ashley Turner
    Ashburn, VA
    703-657-9404
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  • 16.  RE: behavior

    Posted 07-02-2015 01:03
    > From the Code of Conduct: 'Don't challenge or attack others. The
    > discussions and comments are meant to stimulate conversation not to
    > create contention. Let others have their say, just as you may.'

    I must protest on one point. Challenge is absolutely necessary to bring
    some of the other worldly claims made into the realm of physical
    reality. The current idea that all opinions carry equal weight and
    deserve equal consideration is hideous to anyone concerned and having
    made any attempt to contain themselves to said physical reality.
    Contention is, universally, the product of ignorance. If everyone knows,
    there is no disagreement. Disagreement, therefor, is the result of
    ignorance. A realistic discussion should, in a viable species, result in
    a tacit agreement on some basic truth, even when the truth is that we
    don't know enough to say one way or another. "I don't know" is among the
    least stated opinions of the technical world in any category you can name.
    Ron N




  • 17.  RE: behavior

    Registered Piano Technician
    Posted 07-02-2015 01:17

    Ron

    I believe in this context, the word challenge is meant to in the controversial sense, like "I challenge you to a fight".

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    Willem "Wim" Blees, RPT
    Mililani, HI 96789
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  • 18.  RE: behavior

    Posted 07-02-2015 10:40
    > I believe in this context, the word challenge is meant to in the
    > controversial sense, like "I challenge you to a fight".


    And questioning what someone said (challenging) is often characterized
    as an attack.
    Ron N




  • 19.  RE: behavior

    Posted 07-02-2015 05:06

    Well said, Stephen. I am appalled when a wonderfully useful forum like this gets 'personal'. True, we can choose to ignore it but it seems obvious that there are those who choose to be abrasive - which is most offensive. If this sort of behaviour continues from any particular person, cannot that same person be 'struck off' from contributing further to the list? At the very least warned most emphatically that such behaviour will not be tolerated and result in being 'struck off' 

    I, for one, enjoy not only the valuable information, guidance and applications of ideas shown so willingly and readily to all who care to be involved, but also the humour which frequently erupts. (like my English spelling?)

    Let's face it, being a piano tuner/technician is a Very Lonely Occupation - and this Forum is principally for 'shop-talk' and discussion - even including abrasive behaviour and what to do about it.

    Whoever it was that posted that 'youtube' about 'Fulminating sprangle-boxes and the resultant methodology in terminating cross-feeds . . .  ' or whatever, gave me a good laugh! Thank you! I've posted it on to many of my friends/relatives for their enjoyment.

    Michael  UK

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    Michael Gamble
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    Brighton
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