Hi, David
When filing treble grand hammers, I use a block about 5 inches wide (narrowly triangular in cross section) which slides down (narrow end down) in front of the back checks. It allows the hammer tails to be supported. Then I can use a wider hammer file or tape-backed piece of sandpaper, and all the hammers will be exactly the same height. I slide it along so that the new unfiled hammers are next to a couple of filed ones, encouraging them all to be filed in a similar fashion.
Without the block, you appear to still be getting good results, but I do find the block helpful.
For the tenor hammers and the bass hammers I still use the block, but lift each hammer in turn and file it with a thin wooden slat 2" wide which has 220 grit sandpaper glued to it. Because of the angles at which they are bored, each has to be individually filed, but having them all in a row helps me to get them all to have the same profile, and makes it easy to see if I am filing them square instead of crookedly (favoring the bass or treble side.)
You seem to be happy with the results of shortening the grooves, restoring the oval shape of the hammer, but not taking the shortened grooves all the way off, and then using minimal vodka right at the top to put a little cushion in the sound.
Well, it's what I like to do ... glad it's working for you.