Phil, my condolences. I had one like this about fifteen years ago, though the details differ somewhat.
She lived 90 minutes away, and she apparently decided my fee was too high (higher than her previous tuner, then deceased) but instead of canceling the appointment she let me do it while emitting huge negative vibes. I fixed some stuff on her piano, too, which he hadn't, after I carefully explained them to her, and for free. About halfway through, she pleaded illness and went upstairs, leaving me to let myself out. Well, it would explain some of the negative vibes ..... NOT. She just didn't want me to have the slightest chance of being there when she tried the tuning, so I would have no chance to try to "make it right." Not that it needed "making right."
She then found a tuner on the coast I had never even realized was there, even further away from her than me, and she hired him to tell her what was wrong with the tuning and write it out for me, and then demanded my fee back. Not much was wrong with the tuning, but he tried to comply.
I wasn't having any. We had two or three altercations by U.S. Mail. I told her that it was obvious that before I even arrived she had decided my fee was too high (it wasn't), so she purposefully set up a situation where I would have no chance to make any problems right, in order to cheat me. I told her that if she had decided she didn't want to pay me, she would have been able to tell me she didn't want me to tune for her, even after I arrived at her door. Instead she was trying to steal my work.
It was such a miserable psychological space to inhabit that I ended up sending her the demanded refund, though I was quite crabby about it. I wrote "unjustified refund" right on my check. I told her that I wouldn't tell anyone about what she had done, to spare her reputation, but if I heard that she was talking about me, I would tell everyone exactly what she had done and what I thought of it. I never heard a peep. She was older than me, so she's probably gone now --- thankfully.
One other tuning went very wrong, when someone connected with a restaurant hired me to tune there, then collected my fee from management but didn't send it on to me.
Thirty eight years in this business, and I have been cheated out of my fee exactly twice. We really are lucky with our clientele, so friendly and honest.
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Susan Kline
Philomath, Oregon
Original Message:
Sent: 01-23-2016 06:34
From: Phil Bondi
Subject: Very cheap..and unethical..piano tuning story
Hi everyone. I hope this never happens to you.
Gentleman called me to tune his Kawai console that hasn't been tuned in many years..his words. Set up the appointment..
I arrive at the home..he's not there, but the wife is. He's working and will not make it to the home before I'm done. So far, nothing out of the ordinary.
The next day i get an email from this gentleman telling me the piano sounds worse now than before it was tuned...and he tells me he has a good ear for these things, AND he is putting a stop payment on the check. I respond back saying I'm sorry you're not happy with my work..I want to make it better. Stop payment is not necessary..let's make an appointment SOON to come over and make it right. No reply.
I called his home 2 days later stating the above..let me have a chance to make it right. No reply
2 days later I call his office..something I never do(call a client's business) unless asked to. State the same thing..let's make it right. No reply.
He cancelled the check. So, for whatever his bank charges for a cancelled check, he got a tuning. I called 2 guys locally to find out if they received a call from this gentleman..no they had not heard anything, but will be on the lookout for him.
A first for me in 20 years in the business. Not a pleasant experience. I hope it manages to avoid you.
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-Phil Bondi
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